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Last Saturday was a fucking treat! I had soooo much fun it is unbelievable !
It started out as a very slow day and just chilling around with some catching up on my tv series.
But later in the evening Helen told me she was going out in Clapham with some friends and asked me if I cared to join which I obviously did!
However even that turned out a bit dramatic cus I had originally planned to hook up with my boy toy after such long absence. This wasn’t the first time I cancelled with such a short notice so it didn’t really go down too well Loool..
Tbh I would’ve been pissed off too, so I really do get where his frustration was coming from, but nevertheless I had better things to do!
The evening started with us queuing up at the cashpoint and I got approached by a guy that wanted to discuss some business prospects for me, which was really surprising for me! I took his card and hopefully we will get to work on some stuff together real soon.
After that we bar hopped a little and I really recommend most of the bars/clubs around there cus ppl are just so freaking nice and happy!
I am a very sociable person so I find it really nice switching environment every other hour cus then u get new ppl to terrorise Loool
We went to The Loft (not my cup of tea), this other bar I cannot remember the name of (which was really nice cus one could actually speak to each other but with a lively vibe nevertheless, Thai orchid (they have really nice food but as a bar they’re unfortunately not) & my absolute favourite AQUUM!
I have been there a few times during the summer and have always absolutely loved it!
I turned my party mode on and got us into the VIP area, & overall just socialised with so many ppl. I even got to speak to some ppl that worked there that told me I could get in free but for the life of me I can’t remember their names.. And for some of them I can’t even remember their faces… I royally SUCK at this!
Aquum closed at four and as we hadn’t had enough we continued to another lil place that’s quite shabby but closes around 6.. So we partied away and didn’t get home until early morning
I don’t really do all nighters too often but when I do I really have an awesome time !!!!
I can’t wait to do this again
Well this is it for now cus I gotta start getting ready for tonight! We are celebrating Maria’s bday in Mayfair tonight & it’s probably gonna turn out wild!!!
people are so crazily hammered in this part of town and I absolutely love it ! This guy literally ran and jumped in the garbages.. Maybe it looked soft?? Lol
At Aquum u can also expect girls shaking their asses on the bar! Which is totally sexy and fun!!!
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I know you have missed me and I have missed y’all too!
I have had crazy much to do and I’ve also been struggling with getting enough sleep and a cold! Apparently I’m not the only one cus the Gp told my friend it’s flu season so wrap up y’all, being I’ll is no fun at all!
Yesterday I finally got enough sleep; I slept for 19 hours and I feel so fresh and energised! I could probably take on the whole world today! Lol..
Even though I’ve had a lot to do, I’ve concentrated on having fun. Y’all wouldn’t believe all the stuff I’ve been doing lately! I will tell you all about it tomorrow cus I’m a bit pressed for time at the minute. Uni has started now and I have so many projects and events in my student, professional and personal life that I need to make time for so hopefully I will make sure to keep it all rolling smoothly.
I have some new ideas for the blog and Paow & I will make sure to execute them ASAP. It takes a lot of time and planning tho but hopefully we will start publishing it by next week! You guys should be excited cus I guarantee you that your will absolutely love it and won’t want to miss it!!
I need to leave y’all now but don’t miss tomorrow’s post cus I have some crazy gossip and stories for y’all.
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We all are in different sexual points in our lives, some are having loads of it, some aren’t having any, some are making love, some are looking for confirmation etc.
We all have sex for different reasons and this reason may vary depending on our age, relationship status, experience, age and so on.
I have just one advice to share with you; Control your cookie!!!!
Have sex if you want to have sex, don’t have it if you don’t want to.
Do not do it for any other reason!!!
Some of us may not have it because of what society will think, maybe just to prove a point. But remember u do not have to prove anything to anyone bar perhaps yourself!
If you want to give away your cookie cus you want more experience, perhaps to learn what you like and dislike: to find your sexual personality, then that is fine! Just make sure it’s on your terms and that the other person meet your requirements, even though that requirement may be that you never have to see him again!
ALSO re-evaluate your sexual personality now and then, because us humans are forever changing! so something that you may want today is not necessary what you want and need tomorrow!
We seem to always be afraid that some sort of reputation may haunt us for the rest of our life. And I’m not only talking about having a reputation for being the so called Hoe, but also for being rigid, high maintenance, boring, freak, etc. We are all evolving and we learn new things about ourselves every day and that’s how we should keep it.
Just as we are meant to develop our maturity levels and personas, is the same way we should be developing our sexual sides, it is important to always think about what you want when it comes to sex. Do you want it rough? do you want to make love? do you want to do it in public? Hell there are thousands and thousands of ways to do it!! Just make sure you are doing it the way you want to.
I myself have been having problems with this lately and it is only because I had not evaluated my sexual “status” or desires, whatever you want to call it. I have recently gone on a break or whatever it is that I am on with Ian, and break or breaking up usually means doing the things I cannot do whilst I am in a relationship or sometimes finding a new mate to be in a relationship with. Getting sexual advances and proposals from old and new males has put my own intentions to test.
It is not that I want to be loyal to Ian. That I am waiting for him to do something or just come back from the other end of the world where he is on business.
But it’s ME!
For the first time in a really long time I have no insecurities, hormones, lust, loneliness provoking me or pushing me into a certain direction. I am finally thinking clear!
I will not give away my cookie to him or any other male; UNTIL and only until he fulfills my requirement of sweeping me off my feet.
I am very thankful for my past flings, kisses, sex, lovemaking, cuddling, romantic partners and they all fulfilled their purpose and my requirements in the past, but I was never looking for love before, I really wasn’t. It just kinda found me, however I was never ready for it.
And to be quite frank it’s not necessarily what I am looking for now either. I just want the next kiss and the next sexual encounter to be more than what I required before.
I keep on giving my partners (back then and now) all that they desire! Everything from food, to feeling like a man (even when they are in a place in their life when they’re wasteman, yh I’m talking about my ex), sex, fantasy, excitement, love, support; whatever they needed but I never required them to reciprocate because I felt confident about myself. I felt beautiful, intelligent, I could create romance/passion/lust if I wanted it.
However I am not settling for less. Just because I am a strong confident woman does not mean that the my man should not express that. I want the next person (whether it’s Ian or anyone else) to be compatible and work as hard as I work. I am going to make him work for the cookie.
And I advice all of you ladies to do the same! make him fit your requirements and do what you please with your cookie!
Make him, make you feel special by meeting the requirement that YOU have and don’t be ashamed of whatever that requirement is/are; whether is giving it to someone quickly or if it’s being the only one in your friendship circle keeping it in the jar! It is your cookie and you can do whatever the hell you want with it!
Cheers for your Pussypower!