Category Archives: Live Life
I have been on skype to my cousin Karina for the past 3 hours now and like always hours pass by like seconds. Our conversations always flow from one thing to another. However they always seem to be about the same kind of things…
Love, money, education and what the whole future holds for us.
I always seem to stress her into making life changing decisions, cus I don’t want her to underestimate the problems that lie ahead.
I want her to always be on top of things and for her to do much better than me.. She always listens to my “wisdom” which I have gained from my mistakes and she doesn’t make the same mistakes .. which makes me happier than anything.
Of course she has her own mistakes to worry about and other dilemmas but at least she can learn things just a little bit quicker and save herself some heartache. Cus life brings a lot of heartache and avoiding some of it by feeling sympathy and learning from someone elses’ mistakes, well that’s just good!
We talked about the bigger things in life, marriage, kids and so on.
And I advised her to try and get all the other things out of the way; as studies. I really don’t advice people to wait as long as I did. Because even if I wanted to have kids and travel the world I really am not in the position to do it! I’m a student and probably will be for a while.. which puts all the other things on pause.
Before I know it all the good things youth brings are going to have passed me, and her.. so we really have to do whatever we can to experience and enjoy all these things. So that we will be able to look back with no regrets.
And when it comes to love, well I’m not settling for less! I demand loyalty, passion, happiness; well all of it. I’m done playing around. So even though I’ll be playing around in other aspects in my life I am not doing it in my love life. If you are not good enough then you can jog on!
I want the ring! I want that life and I am working hard to get it all !