So I’m gonna let you in on some 1-on-1 girl talk I had with Paow yesterday. The topic is:Boys,Guys, Males, Men whatever u want to call them!
When a girl gets to a certain age and get her womanly features she starts getting attention from the opposite sex.
The question is how to weigh ones options.
It is true having a pussy opens soooo many doors!
This is however depending on whether u play ur cards right or not.
The latest Dilemma in our case is where the focus and expectations should be of a male?
Money, Romance, Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Status, Size of dick lmao
What is it that we should be looking for? What will truly make us happy?
The worst thing is having to not have though something through and regretting forever what one has done!
When it comes to Paow: I totally encourage her to explore her options and sexuality. To be fair she does not have to find the man of her life now, she is not expected to get married just yet (Now if she would find that then fair enough go for it)
What I’m trying to say is that it is not required and expected of her yet!
HOWEVER if one is not looking for a life partner I do not see the reason for not having particular standards anyway.
I think a woman is still entitled to have some sorts of demands of the partner (whatever kinda partner that is).
I am a STRONG BELIEVER in deserving the cookie!
Do not give it out for anyone to taste and have him/her work hard for it!
I am also a strong believer in GENDER ROLES!
Big up to all the independent women on this earth HOWEVER let a man be a man!
I pay my own bills, buy my own clothes and keep myself alive but that don’t mean it wouldn’t be nice to have a significant other to help out a little.
One quote that I live by now a days is: Now I ain’t saying be a Golddigger but DON’T be messing with no broke n****
PERIOD. FULL STOP. EXCLAMATION POINT!
I was in a relationship with a guy for quite some time and I had no problems paying for EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING because I loved him. I loved him with my whole heart and soul!
For me Love was more important than anything.
But that’s not really being realistic! Leaches are not good for ones health!
I learned that the hard way!!
I think the standards that one has in the beginning are the same ones that are going to follow us for the rest of the relationship and that’s why MY standards are quite high before starting anything!
-Do you agree or disagree?
Hit me up on : Beskowspectrum@hotmail.com
That’s it for now lovelies!